Even if we build our own kingdom (career, studies, family, friends, etc) strong, we see how it can tear apart if we turn our hearts away from God. God used Jeroboam to punish Solomon in that Jeroboam was used to tear the kingdom apart from inside out. If we rebel against God, our lives will be torn from inside out too cause our sins will take over and cause problems for everything in our lives.
A friendship has been broken before but I am stll not sure who’s sin is it. However, I know that God wants me to arrange to speak to this person to reconcile the relationship of which I have putting it off for some time already.